I am so excited for you! It’s time to celebrate!
For over twenty years you’ve done what so many
women do after an abortion – you decided that taking a stand for yourself hurt
too much, caused too much harm and therefore withdrew from life and taking a
stand for yourself (or anyone else for that matter) ever again. In my case, for
so many years, it was impossible for me to see what I was doing with regards to
dealing with my abortion. Now that I understand, I can see so clearly and
identify with many other women who have made this choice.
But this weekend, you stood up for yourself and
put your foot down! No more! No more allowing people to walk all over you as if
you are a doormat! No more treating yourself like a servant and a slave! No
more abdicating your power to someone else! Dear girlfriend, I love it!
I did not take a stand for myself until I was
spiritually and energetically dead. I had nothing left to give. Even then, I
have to admit, I stood up for myself only because of my children. Without them,
I wouldn’t be here today. Literally, they saved my life – both my born and
unborn.
I am so happy that I could walk through the flames
with you out to the other side, to have the honor and privilege of seeing you
standing up for yourself the way you did this weekend. You are choosing life – YOUR life – and that’s what this after
abortion journey is all about. Choosing, honoring and loving you!
It will take effort to continue this journey.
Change doesn’t usually happen overnight. You have taken a huge first step. If I
could offer only one nugget of advice to you, it would be to see the little
girl inside of yourself and take care of her. In every moment where you have to
make a choice between yourself and someone else’s happiness, look at your
little girl self and ask her who needs you most. She is still inside you and is
part of who you are. When you are conflicted, remember her. It may be easier to
stand up for her than for your adult self.
I love you so, so much! And I am so happy to sit
beside you on this journey of realignment and transformation! You are an
amazingly beautiful human being!
It’s time to celebrate a brand new world opening
up for you.
Namaste.
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